Raising Kids on the Autism Spectrum: What Parents Need to Know

Parenting is never a one-size-fits-all journey, and when you’re raising a child on the autism spectrum, the path can feel even more complex. From navigating school accommodations to understanding sensory needs, parenting a child with autism requires patience, advocacy, and a whole lot of love.

In the latest episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, we sit down with Dr. Taylor Day, an expert in child and adolescent development, to talk about what kids on the spectrum truly need from parents, teachers, and their communities. Whether your child has an autism diagnosis or you’re simply looking to be a more informed parent, this episode is packed with valuable insights.

What is Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)?

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a developmental condition that affects communication, social skills, and behavior. Because autism exists on a spectrum, each child’s experience is unique—some may need significant support, while others thrive with minimal intervention. Understanding this variability is key to providing the right support.

Common Myths About Autism

Unfortunately, many misconceptions about autism still persist. Here are a few myths we tackle in our conversation with Dr. Day:

Myth #1: “All kids with autism are the same.”
- Reality: Autism presents differently in every child, from highly verbal to nonverbal, from sensory-seeking to sensory-avoidant.
Myth #2: “Autistic kids don’t want friends.”
- Reality: Many kids on the spectrum crave connection but may struggle with social cues. With the right support, they can form meaningful relationships.
Myth #3: “Autism is caused by bad parenting.”
- Reality: Autism is a neurological difference, not the result of parenting styles. However, informed parenting can make a huge impact.

How Parents Can Support Their Child on the Spectrum

During our conversation, Dr. Taylor Day shared practical ways parents can create a supportive environment for their child:

✔️ Understand Sensory Needs – Some kids with autism are sensitive to sounds, textures, or lights. Creating a calm space at home can make a big difference.

✔️ Advocate for Accommodations – Schools are required to provide support for children with autism. Understanding IEPs (Individualized Education Plans) and 504 Plans can help you get the best resources for your child.

✔️ Foster Social Skills in a Safe Way – Structured social activities, therapy, and even play-based learning can help autistic children navigate friendships.

✔️ Emphasize Strengths, Not Just Challenges – Many autistic kids have incredible strengths in areas like memory, creativity, or problem-solving. Focusing on what they excel at builds confidence.