Remember when “going steady” was a thing? Today’s teens use phrases like “talking,” “situationships,” and “soft-launching” their relationships. When it comes to teen love and healthy teen relationships, if you feel like you need a translator, you’re not alone!
On the latest episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Dr. Melissa Wellner and I explore the ins and outs of teen love—how it starts, what healthy relationships look like, and how parents can create open lines of communication.
What Does Healthy Teen Love Look Like?
A great relationship should be safe, fulfilling, and mutual. But how do you help your teen recognize that? We discuss key questions to ask your teen about their relationship, such as:
- Does this relationship make you feel good about yourself?
- Is there mutual respect and trust?
- Are your boundaries being respected?
Setting Boundaries Without Being the “Bad Guy”
Let’s face it—parents walk a fine line between protecting their kids and giving them room to grow. We break down ways to set reasonable boundaries without pushing your teen away.
For example, instead of saying, “You can’t date until you’re 16,” try:
💡 “We want you to have healthy, fulfilling relationships. Let’s talk about what that means.”
The Breakup Talk: How to Support Your Teen
Heartbreak is real at any age, but for teens, it can feel all-consuming. We discuss how to help your teen process breakups in a way that strengthens their emotional resilience—without minimizing their feelings.
Tune into the full episode here.
Punishing vs. Discipling Teens: What Every Parent Needs to Know About Setting Boundaries
Leave a Reply